Mental Health

Look, I’ll level with you: Last Tuesday, I burned toast while answering Slack messages, tripped over my dog, and accidentally texted my boss a meme meant for my college roommate. Multitasking? More like multifailing. But here’s the twist: After that dumpster fire of a morning, I discovered a way to multitask that doesn’t leave you smelling like charred bread. It’s not about doing more—it’s about doing smarter. Let’s talk about how to hack your chaos. 1. The “Odd Couple” Rule (RIP Tony Curtis) Bad multitasking: Writing a proposal while watching Succession (RIP Logan Roy).Good multitasking: Chopping veggies while debating podcast hosts in your head. Here’s my rule: Pair tasks that use different brain muscles. Confession: I “practice TED Talks” while showering. My shampoo bottle has heard more about blockchain than my therapist. 2. The ADHD Hack That Changed Everything Shoutout to my neurospicy bestie who taught me this: Always keep one “dumb task” in your back pocket. How it works: Science-ish reason: Physical busyness tricks your brain into focus mode. My spice rack? Michelin-star ready. 3. Multitasking for Cowards (My 4PM Ritual) At 4PM daily, I hit a wall. Enter: The “Double Decker Nap”. Steps: Why it works: Resting while processing = multitasking for introverts. Last week, I solved a work crisis and finally remembered to buy toothpaste. 4. The “Phone Stack” Game (For Recovering Scrollers) Stolen from a Brooklyn bartender: Rules: My win: Went 47 minutes without Instagram. Saw 3 whole sunsets. Felt like a Victorian poet. 5. Multitask Your Future (Become Your Own Fairy Godmother) Example: While making coffee, I… Pro tip: Pair annoying tasks with dopamine. I pay bills while blasting Beyoncé. Power pose included. Your Turn: Steal My Chaos Try one combo this week: If you fail? Welcome to the club. We meet Tuesdays. Snacks provided.

Let me ask you something: When was the last time you finished a task without glancing at your phone? If you’re like most people, it’s been a while. I know this because I used to measure my worth by how many tabs I could juggle. Spoiler: It ended with me Googling “how to cure chronic exhaustion” at 2 a.m. But here’s the twist—after burning out twice in three years, I stumbled onto a truth most productivity gurus won’t tell you: Real focus isn’t about discipline. It’s about designing a life that doesn’t make you want to scream into a pillow. Let’s talk about how to do that. 1. Your Brain Isn’t a Machine (Stop Treating It Like One) We’ve been sold this idea that grinding 12-hour days is “hustle.” But humans aren’t robots. We’re messy, emotional creatures who need sunlight and snacks. What works instead: 2. Ditch the Apps (Yes, Really) Your phone isn’t a tool—it’s a dopamine slot machine. Every ping yanks your focus like a leash. Try this: Fun fact: After doing this, I rediscovered books. Remember those? 3. Schedule Distraction Time Your brain craves novelty. Depriving it backfires. So lean in—on your terms. How: 4. Steal from Kindergarten Kids thrive on rhythm. Adults? We’re out here raw-dogging chaos. Bring back: (Confession: I built a LEGO Millennium Falcon during “playtime” last week. My focus improved. Coincidence? Probably not.) 5. Focus on Who You Want to Be Here’s the secret: Productivity isn’t about tasks—it’s about identity. Ask: Example: The “calm me” doesn’t answer emails after dinner. She reads bad mystery novels. Why This Matters The old productivity model was built for factory workers. We’re not cogs. We’re humans with beating hearts and Netflix addictions. The future of focus is: Your Turn This week, try one tiny shift: Progress, not perfection. And if you “fail”? Congrats—you’re human.